RELIGIOUS CEREMONY OR LAY CEREMONY?

It is easier to incorporate personalized vows into a secular wedding ceremony. Be aware however that this is just as possible after the exchange of consents at the religious ceremony . Talk to your celebrant. The process is generally well accepted if you respect the rest of the protocol of the ceremony.

SHORT

When we want to declare his love, we would like to tell him everything. But the exchange of wedding vows does not lend itself to a long speech. In addition, each of you will have to intervene. The goal is to discuss your feelings and the reasons for your mutual attachment. But do not tire your guests!

ASK THE ESSENTIAL QUESTIONS

To write your vows, ask your heart. How did he feel when he made you a marriage proposal ? What would you be without him? What has changed in you and in your life? What do you admire at home? Have you ever gone through hard times together? What do you expect from the future?

BE SINCERE

Moving wedding vows are sincerely written wishes. Do not invent a crush if your encounter was not "lightning". Do not invent the perfect deal if your everyday life requires some concessions to your respective characters. Focus on the positive, but not too much, at the risk that your vows appear unconvincing.

MUTUALLY WRITE

To help you write your wedding vows, take the time to write each other a declaration of love to another. These letters will be a good basis for finding the guidelines for your speech.

DIVE IN YOUR ARCHIVES

Accompany the writing of your wedding vows with an immersion in your diary, or in your inflamed letters from the beginning of your relationship. You will get the inspiration you need.

STRUCTURING

For your wishes to be effective, follow a specific plan. Your love meeting What you liked about each other. The reason you decided to unite with him. What you expect from your future life.

ZERO IMPROVISATION

Do not improvise your wedding vows. You do not know today what will be your ability to handle your emotions during the ceremony. A prepared text will give you assurance. Hoping to find the right words wirelessly driver is a little risky.

DO NOT FEAR THE RIDICLE

The exchange of vows is always a very emotional moment for you and for the audience. You can legitimately feel intimidated. Trust yourself and tell yourself that this special moment is not conducive to mockery but rather to handkerchiefs. And since you wished this ceremony to testify of your love, it is the moment to speak!